Never mind, I'm at a loss to explain it, but I uninstalled 4.1.2, rebooted, reinstalled, then rebooted. Wireless working now.
Looks like I'll get leg tonight afterall.
I'm going to start looking into using the advanced mode now after I do some reading. If anyone using Kerio 4.1.2 has any advice or links to "how to configure advanced" please post them. I'll need all the help I can get.
Wish me luck!