Well, let me tell you a story.
In 1996 I had a subordinate conducting an online affair while we were deployed to Bosnia.
In 2001 I was trying to fix my wife's computer and was checking out some repetitive files - and found love letters to her boyfriend that also cut me down. (stupid bimbo was using the Hotmail spell-checker). Turns out that she had Borderline Personality Disorder.
In 2004 I was helping a minister to fix his system - and found his letters to women other than his wife on the system (an online dating service).
I don't do this anymore - it's much too painful!
If you know she's been on it (are you sure?) and yet she denies it - what could be up? Could it be that she's doing something to surprise you, or she's doing something that you wouldn't like.
If you're suspicious - then you 2 have issues that a confrontation over web habits won't help. Besides, what can you prove over web habits? People lie on the web all the time (it was my ex's excuse - she was just pissed and spouting off about me and really didn't mean it!) I divorced her sorry butt shortly afterwards (2002) and am still paying for it today!
I'd strongly suggest counseling - and if she refuses that, then I'd strongly suggest that you consider it for yourself. It's what convinced me of the futility of dealing with a person who has Borderline Personality Disorder.
Since I can sympathize with your situation and if you're still determined then I'd suggest that you start with Google searches to find what you're looking for ( http://www.google.com/
Edited by usasma, 03 November 2006 - 01:19 PM.
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