I'm writing a blog about girls who complain online they can never find a nice guy (because for some reason seeing those posts really makes my blood boil LOL). For the mostpart I have only found women who have been in not so great or downright abusive relationships, or women who are a little but trashy to put it nicely. I was hoping for some input from women who aren't like that and also men because from what I've seen so far the reasons seem to be:
1. Moving too fast....jumping into a relationship before knowing the person (we all are on our best behaviour at the start ;))
2. You're looking in the wrong places....I'm not saying you won't find a nice guy in a bar or casino or club, but he's probably there for a special occasion or event. He very likely doesn't have a special drink or live there unless it's connected to him in some other way, such as through family or work. Or maybe he is! But I am saying the odds are not in your favour.
3. Ignoring red flags because you really want this person to be the nice guy. A lot of women make excuses and brush things off and then wonder how they got messed up with such a not nice guy...and this ties into number 1 as well.
Would really love to hear more opinions and some conversation on mine so far as well :D. As for men please feel free to give me both your perspective on males struggling to find nice girls and females also. And if you're into the same sex feel free to include your perspective also, I am sure that will also have some really great eye openers I have not considered.