It is a long story but I ended up after several weeks on a VPS with Centos .. Here is my problem
Do my files get uploaded to this:
or the folder I found that has the cgi and an index file in:
/var/www/name of VPs co./www
The www after the providor's anme is the one with an index and cgi bin
I am learning linux very very fast and I just love it, but I am not sure of the structure quite yet so help with this will help me get back online.