so i had been assuming for a while that someone had spyware on my computer. well, went to open my webcam and it was already being used by another program. the other day i found a hidden file in my documents for a remote access program (default.rdp). i removed it, it was tricky. then i removed the rest of the program. i guess whoever put this bleep on my computer (i know who it is -- one of two people i know irl) wasn't alright with that. now in \appdata\local there is a folder named "akamai". it was put there 3/29/2015. i didn't download anything that day. i certainly didn't download a cloud sharing program.
in the task manager i notice several things
lsass.exe - this was put in system32 3/11/2015 (modified 3/5/2015 idk if this means anything)
MpCmdRun.exe - this wasn't there before and it has to do with malware protection apparently
netsession_win.exe - this is listed twice, this is where i found that akamai folder.
wmpnetwk.exe - this also wasn't there before (i open task manager maybe a couple times a week)
this is hard to write and i'm kind of panicked, i feel really violated and scared right now. please help me. i'm a teenage girl and this isn't okay.
i don't know what's using my webcam either.