YES you are missing out. You are missing out on all the Nigerian princesess. . The Russian brides scams. You are also missing out on the Asian marriage scammers. There may be a few genuine women on those sites but but but BE carefull you dont need to give her all your details eg Cell phone number. Try skype for the first few chats then go from there. Genuine women will welcome the caution from you and they will be cautious as well.
IF THEY ASK FOR MONEY no matter how small the ammount cut all comunication with them at once.
They may try the my mother /father/child is sick need money for medical bills or the yes I love you send me money for a airline ticket scam DON'T DO IT. Same applies for any Local women you meet.
DO NOT BE A SUCKER FOR A SOB STORY, A genuine woman who is intrested in you will never ask for money.
NO YOU ARE NOT MISSING OUT.
A word to the wise. Most of those dating sites are a scam that will cost you BIG$$$$ bucks in the end. Try joining a social club, Or start 1 in your area for people in the same boat as you.
Looking at your photo you seem a normal sort of guy prehaps you just need some self confidance, Just remember this every time you approach a woman and she says no you are 1 woman closer to the 1 that says yes. Also women who are impressed by BLING eg money, cars etc are not worth the hassle, You need to ask yourself this, Is she intrested in me OR my 50,000 dollar car nice house/appartment etc.
Well thats my 2 cents worth on this subyect. I wish you all the best.
Ps. Just remember if you do meet somebody be honnest with her, Kinda this is me warts and all LOVE IT OR LEAVE IT BABE lol
Edited by NickAu1, 29 January 2014 - 03:09 PM.