did as suggested and still getting the icon wanting to update the same file:
ize: 55.7 MB
This service pack upgrades all Microsoft SQL Server 2005 Express Edition instances and components to Service Pack 3 (SP3). If you need additional installation options, you should download this service pack at the Microsoft Download Center. For more information, see Microsoft Knowledge Base article 955706.
More information for this update can be found at http://support.microsoft.com/kb/955706