To get people to come to your site, I'd suggest putting it in any of your signatures at any forums you post at (I noticed you put it into the one here, so that's good!). Also, email the link to people(you might even want to put it in a signature in your email as well) you think might be interested in your site. Maybe even ask your friends to help pass it along.
Sometimes the word of mouth can be the best thing for a web site. Also this
can help you too. It's FREE and it puts your site into 14 search engines, which are all the top search engines. All you have to do is put a little tag at the bottom of your site. That might worth looking into if you'd like.
Good luck with getting members!
"I would feel more optimistic about a bright future for man if he spent less time proving
that he can outwit Nature and more time tasting her sweetness and respecting her seniority."
E. B. White (1899 - 1985)