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im dating this beautiful slim girl w a great personality and sense of humor for almost a year. the thing is, i don't like just settling for one girl but i dont know how to break it to her. shes deeeeply in love (obsessed?) w me.. i feel just a bout the same way but i miss those times out w the guys and meeting new ppl. she only wants me to herself. everytime she comes to my house i am FORBIDDEN to come close to my desktop or laptop. she hates it. any inputs??????????
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i dont know what to do. help
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Posted 20 August 2009 - 03:47 AM
Bit of ancient advice from Australia that still applies today in a similar thing?
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Dear Dorothy Dix,
We are four girls of 16 who are desperately in love with four boys in their 20s. They're going on a short trip overseas shortly and we want to follow them, but our parents won't let us. Please tell us what we should do. We'll be so unhappy without them.
— Desperate Four
We are four girls of 16 who are desperately in love with four boys in their 20s. They're going on a short trip overseas shortly and we want to follow them, but our parents won't let us. Please tell us what we should do. We'll be so unhappy without them.
— Desperate Four
Read her Answer?
http://womansday.ninemsn.com.au/article.aspx?id=605730
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Posted 20 August 2009 - 08:22 AM
everytime she comes to my house i am FORBIDDEN to come close to my desktop or laptop. she hates it. any inputs??????????
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Computers wern't around when I was young but if l chose it or my mates at the time l wouldn't have had 37 wonderful years with my wife. (still counting)
Not to mention two daughters and four grandchildren.
Those mates will marry and move on.
You can buy a good computer but not a good woman, just my opinion
PS. you only get 10 years for murder down under
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Computers wern't around when I was young but if l chose it or my mates at the time l wouldn't have had 37 wonderful years with my wife. (still counting)
Not to mention two daughters and four grandchildren.
Those mates will marry and move on.
You can buy a good computer but not a good woman, just my opinion
PS. you only get 10 years for murder down under
This post has been edited by Brewster Down Under: 20 August 2009 - 08:32 AM
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Posted 20 August 2009 - 10:22 AM
but i DONT want to marry this girl and i am not planning on. i guess i just don't like breaking ppls hearts
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Posted 21 August 2009 - 10:25 AM
ableg02, on Aug 21 2009, 01:22 AM, said:
but i DONT want to marry this girl and i am not planning on. i guess i just don't like breaking ppls hearts
well you better tell her that then
wasting her time Lol
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Posted 21 August 2009 - 10:50 AM
Leave the computer on and running. Let her look around if she wants. If she gets upset about what you use it for and what you do with it, then she'll move on.
If not and she sees that you use it for information or whatever else you use it for and is ok with it, then this will pass. Give it time.
If you're not comfortable with that then you have a choice to make. Move on and let her go, or let the computer go.
It is ultimately your choice and it is also ultimately your choice how much you will "put up" with from another human being walking the face of the same planet you do.
Good Luck, I've had to make that choice once already. It's not easy.
If not and she sees that you use it for information or whatever else you use it for and is ok with it, then this will pass. Give it time.
If you're not comfortable with that then you have a choice to make. Move on and let her go, or let the computer go.
It is ultimately your choice and it is also ultimately your choice how much you will "put up" with from another human being walking the face of the same planet you do.
Good Luck, I've had to make that choice once already. It's not easy.
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