Thank you, John.
Illiterate as I am, I did it. Partly. And survived
But now I wonder if you can help me reconcile things and use for lessons learned.
There was a link for MS to snoop into my computer whereby they determine what's needed. I allowed it, right or wrong?
MS screen informed me that 5 upgrades apply.
The list does NOT quite match the list in my original post. Puzzling.
From the above list (refering to my numbering scheme) they picked:
3. KB885828 - for Office - smart tags upgrade
5. KB887979 Word upgrade
They added KB89699 Outlook junk mail patch. I took that as well.
They added two French upgrades, grammar and spelling, which I skipped.
Upgrade 6 didn't come in, which is OK considering I have neither.
I shouldn't have put it in the list in the first place.
Upgrade 2. KB838905 for Office, which to me looked most significant, wasn't available on that screen. Would you suggest I go after it now or will it break my computer?
From your experience, are upgrades always a guessing game

or are there valid rules to follow that you could share? I'm just trying to learn how to go about it in the future.