i've checked the memory card and i think it was seated correctly. i tried the memory card on other pc and it was working well so it could not be a bad stick.
heres the specs of my motherboard
ASROCK P4VT8
1. Socket 478 for Intel P4 processor
2. VIA PT800 chipset
* Supports Hyper-Threading Technology
* Hybrid Booster - a safe overclocking feature
* FSB 800MHz
* DDR 400/333/266
* ASROCK I/O Plus - supports up to 8 USB2.0 ports
* 1x AGP 8X, V1.5
* Serial ATA 1.5Gb/s, RAID 0,1,JBOD, SATA HDD HotPlug
