Our generation is
- forgetting how to spell things (google, spellchecker etc...)
- becoming to free (too many freedoms at such a young age)
- not enough responsibility (compared to back in the day)
- not enough discipline (compard to back in the good ol' day of school and the paddle)
- too stupid and intelligent for their own good (some kids in our generation are either too smart for their own good, or too stupid for their existance, you can't barely find anyone in the middle that is well rounded).
- lack of pride (no one in my generations actually takes pride on anything, not grades, cars, significant other, nothing!)
- lack of motivation (everyone is told they can be what ever they want, but once out int the real world finds that Uncle Sam rips you a new one in 3 different ways*)
- lack of skills (back in the good ol' day you had a part time job when you were younger (about 16-18). you actually kept busy after school or you helped your father on building something. You knew how to actually use tools. Like a ratchet, cross-blade screwdriver, drill-driver, circular-saw, reciprocating saw... ok i don't know if they had all those back then...)
- lack of respect for others (very few in my generation actually respect themselves, parents, family, and even authority. Just because you don't believe in the current system, president, or congressional leaders, doesn't mean you disrespect them).
- lack of compassion (very few, very few people in my generation actually show, or even have a sense of compassion for their friends or even their girlfriend or boyfriend; they will actually respect them, show their companionism for them)
- too creative (our generation was brought up to be TOO creative. If you are too creative then you begin to forget about certain
required boundries such as your parents, government, local authorities, cops, adults in general)
- the hands off approach? ... (ok this may seem radical but look at most parents today. they are doing good (not great, but good) they have some respect, they are some-what disciplined. They know what they are doing. Our parents grew up with spanking, some with the belt, or even more... however, they turned out fine (except for the wife-beaters and child-beaters). Now today
heaven forbid you lay a finger on a child! You can't discipline anyone in today's time. Do you honestly think a child is going to learn by taking away the computer? can't go to their friends? They'll just adapt to not doing said activities. A good spanking instilled fear of committing a bad activity. I personally grew up with the belt, I hated it at the time, but now that I look back at it. I actually turned out decent. I have good mannerism (compared to many other students my age), good respect, not-so-disciplined (self disciplined) but I don't smoke, don't do drugs, never had sex, never done anything outrageously wrong except download a few songs on kazza back in the day.
- lack of mannerism -- whatever happened to holding the door open for others? (especially woman, your mom, your sister, your girlfriend, your sister, any woman.) I was grown up to hold the door for them. Heck, I notice myself today holding the door open for others, even if it is a guy, I usually grab the door and let others through first. I'm just nice when it comes to that. I am in no hurry, we are all going to the same place...
- lack of self-conscious -- whatever happened to make one's own decisions? Now today you see most kids trying to "fit it," with radical groups... back in the our parents (if they weren't already) tried to fit in with the jocks, the cheerleaders or whatever the cool group was back then. They might have done some-drugs back then (during the vietname war etc...) however, they weren't out planning a school shooting, or finding ways to kill other students...
- lack of self-respect or too much of it -- something I have noticed with my generation is that many people don't care how they look or they care too much. Like the jocks and cheerleaders in my school always did makeup in class, always wore revealing clothes etc... (and it barely fit the school guidelines)^ Then you have the kids who don't care what they look like! Even though they have some money to help that. (ok, for the financially hurting; you have to make with you have), but as for the ones you know who have money, they could help the way they look
- lack of appreciation of oneself? aka: finding a "fad" -- ok what is up with this gothic look all of suden? geez... some girls (and even guys) walk around looking like the undead from the medieval times.. Quit trying to find a "fad" you think that fits.
Find yourself!! Read "My Reality Check Bounced ~ Jason Ryan Dorsey" if you need help.
- maturity -- what happened to actually acting your own age?Just because you liked picking on your sister when you were eight, or riding the dog around the house like a horse, doesn't mean you do that stuff when you're 12...
That's pretty much all I got at the moment, but from what I can tell you is that our generation is strongly on the wrong direction. I hope that whoever becomes the president from my generation isn't a nut-case, that was picked on severally in school.
I can't wait until I have kids. I'm going to make sure they get better treatment and are brought up a little more like my parents (only to a certain degree). I don't want to have wild-children, or the brainwashed kids. I want my children to live a well-respected life, and make choices for themselves (like their religion, skills, activities, interests etc.. I am not going to force that upon my children.
^which is another thing today, girls are showing way too much? what is up with this? men have been excited, and always interested in woman since the beginning of time...
*Property tax, income tax,
AND SALES TAX. What else do they have left to tax? Oh I forgot the
INTERNET... next thing you know they will be a living tax. If you live in this country you must pay $0.01 for every kilogram you displace out of our country. You are wasting valuable space in our society!!!