QUOTE(DSTM @ May 15 2007, 06:02 AM)

Hi
'Joy Green', I respect your opinion,but have difficulty understanding your Philosophy.
Why does a Person require Cannabis to cure Alcohol Addiction? In my opinion it makes no sense to use one drug to cure another.
Personally I think It's all in the mind, to take this approach.
Ever heard of "WILLPOWER" to cure a drug problem,instead of looking for Crutches to lean on. Anyone who indulges in these practices in the first place,I don't have sympathy for. Sorry.
Coke might cure my Smoking Habit.

In most cases I would agree with you, but I wonder if you have ever met A true alchoholic. Alchohol is by far the hardest thing for someone to quit. When an Alchoholic is talking with you face to face, they seem like they have not a care in the world. That is because the alchohol teaches them to suppress it. When that same person gets some time alone, however, it all starts getting to them. The drinking helps cover up the pain. I'm living with 2 right now. One of them, a Vietnam vet., has been kicked out of some of the best clinics in the country, and the rest of them wouldn't take him. It took about 10 years of AA and a
great deal of willpower for him to quit. Here it is now another 10 years later and he still grumbles from time to time about how he still feels the need for a drink, but how he's so scarred to do so.
The other one is my Mother's boyfriend. What one might look at as complete disregard for those around them, I look at as A personal statement to those same people. When ever one of us in the house would catch him, he wouldn't say anything for the rest of the day, and I mean all day. He would just mope around with a depressed "you caught me" look on his face. Eventually he would say to himself "why do they even like me then...?", wander off, and grab some more to drink.
You should stop by an AA meeting (only about 30-60 minutes long) and hear some of what they have to say. You don't have to ask questions, don't have to say or do anything, just listen... and if what they say sounds all too ridiculous to handle... just remember: That too is what the alchohol does to someone. The difference is that in AA you can more clearly hear their call for help.
I could go on forever on this subject but I'm just going to leave it at that.
QUOTE(joygreen @ May 15 2007, 06:02 AM)
I don't think I have ever encountered a crack user, but briefly dated a man who used coke. At work, he was nice, but other times he was extremely aggressive. I certainly do not want to be around coke/crack users.
The thing with coke is that... although almost none of them want to admit it, most coke users have also done crack. Whether it be curiosity, or peer pressure using a quote along the lines of "its still coke", or "its not as bad as people make it look like". Trust me... its even worse. You have no idea what it does to you untill you do it. Sorry to say this but... The aggressiveness sounds more like a crack thing to me.
If you ever get a chance to go to a mental hospital ask the Bi-Polar and/or Skitzo (If the skitzo ones answer you) patients this one thing: "Have you ever done coke?" Then lean towards the crack a bit until you get that answer. Then answer me why it is that every one of those patients has done it?
Before someone tries to discredit that last statement I will say this with a grim feeling: I spent half a month in a mental hospital as an out-patient. As a matter of fact it was the best in my state: Shepherd Prat of Ellicot city. That was my experience of curiosity.... I was wondering if I was the only one. I'm glad I got in there as quickly as I did otherwise my addiction would of grown... It only takes one time people... even if you didn't know what it was.