I've posted my problems with ZoneAlarm in this forum just recently...
http://www.bleepingcomputer.com/forums/ind...?showtopic=1267the quick read on it being...
Grinler: If you disable zone alarm do the problems continue happening?
Phawgg: disabling zonealarm (enabling ICF only) eliminates the problem.
My plan is to continue studying the subject, and since it works right now for me, keep the ICF alive...ZA shut off.
I understand from MS that the SP2 has several changes in the ICF, or at least a new buzzword name for it.
I tried Outpost free, but it was in conjuncture with other problems. My uninstall wasn't perfectly clean, but thats not to say it may work fine (if I apply a little more consideration into what I do with it...same for ZA, for that matter.)
Kerio and Sygate are up for trials in the near future.
I'm also going to check to see if there is support or a discussion forum re: zone alarm...maybe the only answer would be to "buy up", like "go pro" as they so consistantly indicate is an option one should exercise.

also, thanks to Acidizd, I'll check into this... "the reason for pages not connecting is you gotta make sure you have the prompt for outgoing programs on. if not it will just block it."