Hi jmsrihv, welcome to BC.
On a 9x bootdisk, all versions, it's "findramd.exe". There is no "find.exe" that I'm aware of.
You should be able to download a ME bootdisk anywhere and extract the file, provided it's not a self extracting version of a boot disk.
I've probably got an old 98SE bootdisk around here somewhere. If you want, I can upload it and place a link here.
If you are looking for the actual "find.exe" file from a WinMe system, I don't have a clue other then the obvious.

EDIT:
Here's a 95B version of "find.exe" which should be good for all 9x.