My AntiVir AV Personal SE has identified the Trojan TR/Dldr.lstBar.JA but will not remove it. My McAfee won't even detect it. Can someone tell me how to get rid of it.
Anything that's not in German would be most helpful. Google seems to suck on this point.

The first thing that comes to mind is that you mention 2 AV's. Thats not good. I'm hoping you only have one active at a time.

I would suggest downloading this product. It's free to use. Quite agressive as well. Don't panic if you find that it catches ALOT of cookies too. I would recommend that you run the Ewido scan in "safe mode".
If you don't know how to do this, here's a tutorial of how to start windows in safe mode. Also, be sure and save a copy of the scan for further reference.

Be (Ewido) Safe

Da Animal

I don't keep either program running. I run them once a day separately.
This Trojan, so far, has not ( it would seem ) done anything malicious yet.
It just keeps popping up in my AntiVir. I'd like to go in and pull it out by hand if I could.

You need to keep one of your AV running at all times to help prevent attacks and/or fight them as they arrive. Everybody needs real time protection:
An AV, a good firewall, and add spywareblaster for good measure:
Have a read of tutorial 82 on this site